Repeat yourself in the mirror: beauty is not a matter of age

The excuse of age is one of the main causes of self-sabotage. Learn to indulge your nature and you will be freer and happier.

How many times have you said to yourself when faced with a dress to wear, a make-up to try, a haircut or a color to risk: “I'm not old enough!” .

Well, from now on we only allow you to say this phrase if you are singing the song Gigliola Cinquetti of Sanremo 1964.

You should know that 'the excuse of age' is one of the main causes of self-sabotage of their actions.

Claiming to be now 'too old' for certain choices or experiences, we feed our fears and influence our behaviors.

It is, of course, not only our fault. The company in some way it requires that at 20 you can have certain experiences that are no longer 'appropriate' at 40, 50, 60.

The same goes for looks, hair color, places to hang out.

Which then, if you notice, it's as if you constantly feel 'behind' on everything .

If you don't have a steady job at 30, the criticism begins ;)

If you haven't had children at 40, they always ask you why.

If you don't have a solid family at 50, you're weird.

In short, it is as if society had established some 'obligatory stops' from conventions that should be outdated by now.

Who decided what is good or bad for us? Who decided how we should live?

The problem with conventions is that they often create in people blocks and incredible discomforts : you feel wrong, always 'late' on everything or, on the contrary, not adequate to the standards that the status quo requires because one is 'alternative', rebellious, different.

Well, the secret to well-being and living your age well is precisely this: don't rely on what is written on the your identity card , but do what you feel like , dress however you want, style your hair like a gypsy, like a punk rocker, or shave your head if you feel like it.

Freedom of expression is ageless, and so is your spirit.

Balique he talks about hair, but you know How much does hair say about a person ?

Ladies over 50 (and even over 40!) used to all have the same hairstyle, short and puffed up. A 'respectable and discreet' hairstyle.

Today, fortunately, we see a lot of personality: the wonderful actress Andy MacDowell who shows up at the Cannes Film Festival with a beautiful salt and pepper hairdo with an ease that we should all have or a Lucia Bose who, until the very end, dyed her hair blue like the Blue Fairy.

This is true freedom: not having to answer to anyone for your choices, especially aesthetic ones. The important thing is to know taking care of yourself , indulging your desires.

Then, for the care of your hair – even crazy ones, whatever color they are – we are here! 😉